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Going Dark for a While (if I can figure it out)

I’m hoping to figure out how to make this blog unavailable for a while. I’ve made some mistakes in my personal life and I have tried to keep them from affecting my kid. I failed, but I think she will be OK. If you have a prayer list, or a “sending good vibes” list and you’re looking for new topics…please ask for my kid’s wellbeing on my behalf.

You know the saying, “you have the right to remain silent…just not the ability”? That’s how I feel lately.

I am so grateful to the online community for all the friendship and support I have received. Y’all have played such an important role in helping me feel like I’m not alone, I’m not awful, I’m not ill-intentioned. (Although I’ve been paving the shit out of the road to Hell lately.)

So I’m going to try to be a better online community member for a while, by paying attention to my friends’ lives a little more closely and by not obsessing so much about my own.

I appreciate every person who has written or reached out to me to try to help me…learn my lessons, appreciate myself, let go gracefully…

Thank you for the many blessings you have brought into my life. See you soon!






4 Responses

  1. I’m sure your kid will turn out fine because she has a good mother. I’ll put both of you on my sending good vibes list. It’s easy to get caught up in your own life especially when things are not going well — I’m very guilty of that!
    If you ever want to talk, you know where to find me.You’ve been a good friend, and I can’t thank you enough for the support you’ve given me. Hope I can return the favour some day.
    Hang in there and (((((hugs)))))

    • Thanks Phylor. Your good vibes are felt. So are all the ((((hugs)))).

  2. You know what they say “you cannot be good caregiver unless you take care of yourself first”.Kids are much more resilient than we give them credit for and in turn she will be a stronger human being for it.Teaching conflict resolution is just as important as conflict avoidance.Dont worry and dont stay away too long 🙂

    • Thanks Michelle. Smart words!

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